{"id":1618,"date":"2026-04-05T13:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-04-05T11:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kinderpraktijksensiq.nl\/_p\/?p=1618"},"modified":"2026-04-03T13:35:36","modified_gmt":"2026-04-03T11:35:36","slug":"waarom-trekt-mijn-kind-zich-terug-na-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kinderpraktijksensiq.nl\/_p\/waarom-trekt-mijn-kind-zich-terug-na-school\/","title":{"rendered":"Waarom trekt mijn kind zich terug na school?"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_0\"><strong>Je kind is thuis\u2026 maar eigenlijk niet echt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_1\">Je kind komt uit school en is stil. Geen boosheid, geen grote emoties&#8230; juist niet. Je stelt een vraag, maar krijgt een kort antwoord of helemaal niets. Jas uit, tas ergens neergegooid en weg. Naar boven, naar buiten of in zichzelf gekeerd op de bank.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_063526-4a_2\">Je voelt dat er iets speelt, maar je komt er niet tussen. En hoe vaker je probeert contact te maken, hoe meer je kind zich lijkt af te sluiten.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_0\"><strong>Terugtrekken is geen onwil, maar bescherming<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_1\">Wat je ziet, is geen desinteresse of koppigheid. Het is vaak een vorm van bescherming.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_2\">Een schooldag vraagt veel van een kind. Niet alleen cognitief, maar juist sociaal en emotioneel. Opletten, presteren, omgaan met anderen, verwachtingen aanvoelen. Zeker als je kind gevoelig is pikt hij niet alleen dat wat van hem is op maar ook dat wat van anderen is. Prikkels zoals licht en geluid komen daar ook nog eens bij. Het systeem staat de hele dag \u201caan\u201d. Bij thuiskomst is de rek eruit. Waar sommige kinderen ontladen in boosheid of druk gedrag, doen andere kinderen dat door zich juist terug te trekken. Even geen vragen. Geen verwachtingen. Geen prikkels.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_cc5d59-31_5\">Dat is geen afwijzing van jou&#8230;. dat is herstel.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_0\"><strong>Wat er vanbinnen gebeurt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_1\">Na een dag vol indrukken zit het hoofd van je kind vol. Het lichaam vaak ook. Het zenuwstelsel staat nog in een soort \u201caan-stand\u201d. Als je dan meteen iets vraagt; \u201cHoe was het op school?\u201d kan dat simpelweg te veel zijn. Niet omdat de vraag groot is, maar omdat er geen ruimte meer is om te reageren. Terugtrekken helpt je kind om die prikkels te verwerken. In stilte, in beweging, of gewoon door even niets te hoeven. Sommige kinderen zoeken hun kamer op. Anderen verdwijnen in spel, scherm of beweging. Het ziet er misschien afstandelijk uit, maar van binnen gebeurt er juist veel.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_0\"><strong>Hoe je w\u00e9l kunt aansluiten (zonder te trekken)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_1\">Dit is vaak het punt waarop het schuurt. Want jij wilt contact. Begrijpen wat er speelt. Er zijn voor je kind. Maar hoe meer je trekt, hoe verder je kind zich kan terugtrekken.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_3 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img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_4 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_4\">Even niets vragen als je kind net thuis is\nFysiek nabij zijn zonder iets te verwachten\nAansluiten via iets praktisch: samen eten maken, iets pakken, even naar buiten\nLater op de dag pas terugkomen op hoe het ging\nBenoemen wat je ziet zonder druk: \u201cIk zie dat je even stil bent, dat is ok\u00e9\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_b55b13-40_4_5\">Het vraagt iets van jou: vertragen, ruimte laten en vertrouwen dat het contact weer komt.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_0\">Hoe krijg je w\u00e9l weer verbinding met je kind?<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_1\">Verbinding ontstaat niet op het moment dat jij het nodig hebt, maar op het moment dat je kind er weer ruimte voor heeft. Dat betekent dat je soms bewust moet stoppen met trekken. Hoe logisch je behoefte ook is om te praten of te helpen. Wat vaak beter werkt, is laagdrempelig contact. Niet via vragen, maar via aanwezigheid. Naast je kind zitten. Samen iets kleins doen. Even dezelfde ruimte delen zonder dat er iets moet.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_3_0\">Je merkt dan vaak dat je kind vanzelf iets laat vallen. Een losse opmerking, een zucht, een klein stukje van zijn dag. Dat is je ingang. Niet om meteen door te pakken, maar om bij te blijven. En soms komt dat moment pas later. In de auto. Voor het slapengaan. Of ergens tussendoor, als de spanning gezakt is.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_a0b4e0-b3_4_0\">Je kind hoeft zich niet eerst open te stellen om verbinding te voelen. Het voelt jouw aanwezigheid ook als het stil is.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_0\"><strong>Wanneer wordt terugtrekken een signaal om verder te kijken?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_1\">Terugtrekken na school is op zichzelf niet zorgelijk. Veel kinderen hebben die overgang nodig.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_2\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Maar het wordt iets om beter naar te kijken als:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_3\">je kind structureel afgesloten blijft, ook later op de dag\ner weinig contactmomenten meer zijn\nje kind somber oogt of weinig plezier laat zien\nschool steeds meer spanning lijkt te geven\nje als ouder merkt dat je je kind \u201ckwijtraakt\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_d15bca-a2_4\">Dan is terugtrekken geen kort herstelmoment meer, maar een manier geworden om met iets om te gaan wat groter is.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_0\"><strong>Je hoeft het niet open te breken<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_1\">De neiging is vaak: ik moet hem laten praten. Ik dat hij praat&#8230;want dan voel ik verbinding. Maar echte verbinding ontstaat niet door duwen. Soms zit het juist in ernaast blijven. In het accepteren dat je kind even niet praat en er toch bent. Van daaruit ontstaat weer ruimte. Je kan dat ook rustig zeggen &#8220;Ik ben er als je wil praten&#8221;. Die wetenschap is voldoende vaak. En heel waardevol. Ook als er geen gebruik van wordt gemaakt. Je zet namelijk een deur open voor wanneer het wel nodig is. In herhaling zit dan de kern.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0\"]{font-style:normal;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0 mark.kt-highlight, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0\"] mark.kt-highlight{font-style:normal;color:#f76a0c;-webkit-box-decoration-break:clone;box-decoration-break:clone;padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;}.wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0 img.kb-inline-image, .wp-block-kadence-advancedheading.kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0[data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0\"] img.kb-inline-image{width:150px;vertical-align:baseline;}<\/style>\n<p class=\"kt-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0 wp-block-kadence-advancedheading\" data-kb-block=\"kb-adv-heading1618_91dc35-24_2_0\">Misschien herken je dat je kind zich afsluit en dat je niet goed weet hoe je hem kunt bereiken. Soms helpt het al om anders te kijken naar wat er gebeurt en daarin samen te ontdekken wat jouw kind nodig heeft.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Je kind is thuis\u2026 maar eigenlijk niet echt Je kind komt uit school en is stil. Geen boosheid, geen grote emoties&#8230; juist niet. Je stelt een vraag, maar krijgt een kort antwoord of helemaal niets. Jas uit, tas ergens neergegooid en weg. Naar boven, naar buiten of in zichzelf gekeerd op de bank. Je voelt&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"Je kind komt uit school. Trekt zich terug maar je merkt dat er iets is. 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